Our bestselling toi et moi necklace, now with a pearl.
Lustrous pearls and triple-A gemstones – what's not to love? Personalize yours with over a dozen gemstone options, be it the birthstone of a lover/friend/yourself or simply your favorite color. And for a bit of history: the Toi Et Moi trend was launched by Napoleon + Josephine (history buffs know), but it was Emrata, Jackie O, and Ariana Grande who really brought it back into the modern day. Très chic. Explore the entire toi et moi collection here.
A pear shape 8x5mm gemstone is perfectly paired with a 5.5mm freshwater cultured pearl in a classic prong setting, on an 18" chain with jump ring at 15.5" in your choice of vermeil, 14k, or 18k.
We worked with our best partners to bring you affordable and quality gemstones. Note: white sapphire, green emerald, blue sapphire, red ruby, aquamarine, pink sapphire, and green tourmaline stones are lab-grown, all other gemstones are natural and therefore color variation/inclusions may occur.
Thickness:
6.7mm setting, 1.5mm chain
Stones:
Pear Cut Gemstone: 8x5mm (1ct);
Freshwater Cultured Pearl: 5.5mm
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Leather
Vegan Leather is a "faux" leather made from polymer, a recyclable and low carbon impact material. It is made without using any animal products, meaning no animals were harmed in the making of this material.
Marble
Marble is a natural stone formed by the earth over millions of years and valued for its crystalline structure and hardness. This means the veining on each of our marble pieces is unique and one of a kind.
Vermeil
Made with a 100% sterling silver base and plated in a minimum of 2.5 microns of 14k recycled gold or higher (vs. the standard of 10k gold). We proudly steer clear from brass, regular gold plating, and actually stand by the official vermeil 2.5 micron guidelines (which is 500% thicker, fyi). Because we like to overachieve, we've also added a bonus anti-tarnish coat to protect against day-to-day wear.
14k Solid Gold
We recommend 14k solid recycled gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last for generations to come. Solid gold is guaranteed to never tarnish, so you never have to take it off (bonus: you can wear it in water). It's 100% worry free. In addition to our quality standards, all our manufacturers certify where their gold comes from so we can proudly stand behind our ethical practices.
14k and 18k Solid Gold
We recommend 14k or 18k solid recycled gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last generations to come. Solid gold is guaranteed to never tarnish, so you never have to take it off (bonus: you can wear it in water). It's 100% worry free. In addition to our quality standards, all our manufacturers certify where their gold comes from so we can proudly stand behind our ethical practices.
Platinum
More durable than solid gold, we recommend platinum over white gold for engagement or wedding bands, as it's easier to maintain overtime.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using VS2 quality or higher for our engagement solitaires, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using SI quality or higher, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. As your diamond size increases, our standards increase, to ensure we always keep a flawless look. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Lab Diamonds
Visually and chemically identical to our high quality natural diamonds, but a more affordable (and arguably environmentally friendlier) alternative. See the pros and cons here.
Diamond Certificate
All of our engagement diamond solitaire rings come with a certificate certifying the quality (cut, color, clarity and carat) of your diamond. It is run through one of two accredited institutions: The Gemological Institute of America or The International Gemological Institute. Trust but verify, always.
Gemstones
Our team of obsessors hand pick the highest quality, precious and semi-precious gemstones. Each is unique, but all pass our meticulous standards.
Pearl
We only use the highest quality AAA-rated freshwater farmed pearls with the best luster and smoothness. Never grey, never dull, never blemished.
Enamel
An ultra-lux method of applying color to gold with powdered glass and high heat. We obsessively sampled & played around with color combinations until we create the perfect hue for you.
Recycled Gold
Proudly made with recycled gold. This means the majority of the gold we use does not come from a mine, making our jewelry more sustainable. While it might cost us more, we vote planet > profit, all day every day.
